The Feline Experience
My husband and I are proud to say we are 100 % cat-owned, and our herd has recently increased to five fine felines. For me, the fascination with felines started in the crib. Tom was a confirmed canine-ophile until I introduced him to the wonders of cat-love.
Dogs are wonderful companion animals, and I like them too. I love their altruism, their willingness to sacrifice themselves for others, and their dogged determination to please. But I’ve never felt it easy to live with a saint. Cats are humans in fur coats, and I understand them better because they live out all the same emotions and motivations their bipedal servants do.
Let’s face it: dogs have masters, cats have staff. Ours live the kind of life I’d like to live. Long naps, followed by meals, followed by more naps, followed by some excitement looking out the windows at the birds and squirrels who frequent our yard, followed by bedtime. Sounds like a lifestyle I could definitely get used to: no alarm clocks, no traffic, no stress. No wonder cats always look so d**n relaxed. I’m sure I’ve never heard of a cat with hyper-tension or migraines.
Historically, cats have been worshiped and vilified. In ancient Egypt, the cat-headed goddess, Bast, was loved and to kill a cat in that country was grounds for execution (Hear Hear!). Herodotus recorded a story about a Roman centurian who drove his chariot at break-neck speed down a crowded street in Egypt, killing a cat. The mob pulled him from his vehicle and strangled him on the spot. Unfortunately, Western society, under the ignorant aegis of the Catholic Church, declared cats to be allied with the so-called devil, and the wholesale destruction of cats brought on an enormous growth in the European rodent populations. It is now known that the Black Plague was caused by a bacillis in the rat flea and the stupidity of killing cats brought about the deaths of millions in the Middle Ages. Nowadays, cats are no longer looked upon as divine or evil, but very loveable companion animals.
It has been determined by some scientists who have studied the feline mind for many years, that the average adult cat’s mentality approximates that of an 18 month old human. How this assessment was arrived at, I have no real data for, but from a purely personal POV, I can say that sounds just about right. Cats, when kept in the home, and cared for by humans, especially if the care given is loving and generous, become eternal children. As all children do, they are prone to a variety of emotional states, and are quite capable of relaying to us that they are happy, upset, p***ed off, or just plain scared. Animal trainers often say, using the right techniques, training cats to do tricks is no more difficult than training dogs or pigs. Cats need a special type of motivation in order to get them to do things on purpose, and this we have discovered for ourselves over time.
Geoffrey Moussaieff Masson, in his seminal book “The Nine Emotional Lives of Cats: A Journey into the Feline Heart”, lays out a detailed examination of the facts surrounding cat life and their feelings. He does not anthromorphise cats. What he does do is use observation and experience as one of the cat-owned, to explain them. According to Masson, the list of cats’ emotions he has observed include: narcissism, love, contentment, attachment, jealousy, fear, anger, curiosity and playfulness. One of the interesting items the author confirms in the book is that cats feel no guilt. What a wonderful thing. Wow. I could use that ploy. If the dog breaks something, you can see it in his downcast eyes and bowed head. If the cat breaks something, he walks away unscathed. If you cannot use guilt or offering an animal the opportunity to please you (which cats think is only for dogs), what can you do? You have to convince the cat that doing whatever it is you want them to do is something THEY will also want to do. Of course offering little treats for a job well done has its place, but it’s primarily a psychological battle between human and feline. And I’ve been on the losing side a long time. Between my husband and myself we have 4 university degrees but I’ve seen an 8 pound cat outsmart us just trying to get her to take a pill.
Our cats have mirrored Masson’s research pretty much to a T. They have run the gamut from love and playfulness, to jealousy and anger every time a new feline has joined the herd. There are all kinds of little dramas and interactions being played out amongst them every day. Alliances are drawn up only to be broken when one oversteps his or her boundaries with another. Food is sacrosanct - don’t steal or push the other nose out of the dish. Certain observation posts are considered personal territory: the kitchen window seat is an often hotly contested spot, especially if the sun is out. Our Blue Point Siamese, Lady Kiya (aka Kiki), loves to glower down on us from her supreme location on top of the cupboards over the fridge. Sammit, the dowager elder, has held her position as Alpha Feline in the household since her arrival, and even the two males, Salem and Kipling, no better than to push their luck with her. At almost 17 pounds, Sammit doesn’t take any s**t. She has an attitude and she isn’t afraid to use it. But with humans, she is laid back, loving and marvelously patient about accepting her two insulin shots a day. Yup, it’s a little feline Peyton Place here sometimes.
If we accept what can be quantified in research and observation about cats, can we accept other, less scientific information about our furry friends as well? Renowned psychic Jeane Dixon wrote a book called “Do Cats Have ESP?” and in it, she posits the view that she has personally seen evidence of some sort of sixth sense exhibited by various felines. She cites numerous examples of ‘homing cats’, as well as cats who have saved lives and even one who was able to warn her person that they were about to experience a series of seizures, brought on by injuries in a car accident. Even scientists have coronating research that cats are good barometers for incoming earthquakes. How they are able to determine that one is coming, the scientists are still working on. (I suspect there is a true scientific reason for this, and not a supernatural one). Cats are used as visiting animals in hospitals, children’s wards and seniors complexes. Many older ladies enjoy cats because they are easy to hold and small, just like babies. And the sound of purring has a truly sedative effect on the tired, the sick and the dispossessed. Many nursing homes in Canada and the United States have started keeping indoor ‘house’ cats because the residents enjoy the connection with the pets and pets make a house a home (I know of a local nursing home chain which maintains a ‘house cat’ in each of its locations and the residents are thrilled). One nursing home in the U.S. has been documenting the fact that a dying resident will receive the constant attention and quiet companionship of the ‘house cat’, who will remain with the person, on their bed, until they pass on. Cats are also popular visiting animals in homes for autistic children, as the kids seem to find it easier to relate, at times, to the non-demanding attention of a cat.
Another author has taken the issue of ESP even further in her book “Animals and the Afterlife.” Kim Sheridan is an American lecturer and workshop leader, and founder of the Compassion Circle, an organization that seeks to comfort those who have lost pets to death. Sheridan’s contention is that animals have souls just the same as humans do, and that they have a place in the world beyond life on planet Earth.http://www.AnimalsAndTheAfterlife.com. Those of us who have loved and lost any pet, recall the bittersweet tears and memories of our four-footed companions. Visit her website, www.AnimalsAndTheAfterlife.com.
With all the undemanding love and kindness cats extend to us, it still shocks me to see that there are those out there who choose cats or kittens to abuse, rather than to love. Two recent episodes printed in the local newspaper have been indeed upsetting and the sentences handed down laughable. Elliott Leyton, a famous FBI profiler, and the author of “Hunting Humans’, has drawn an uncomfortable parallel between animals abuse and murder and serial killers. Savages like Ted Bundy, Albert Desalvo, Charles Starkweather and others apparently started their career in cruelty by hurting and abusing animals.
Buying or adopting any pet has some important responsibilities attached. Neutering is first on the list, and in the case of cats who might use their claws to shred the furniture, declawing might also be in the cards. But so are yearly shots, flea bane, anti-parasite medication, and the right kind of food, cat litter and other necessities of life. Our personal view has been that keeping a cat indoors is the best way to maintain their health and extend their lives. Not to mention keeping the neighbours happy (nobody likes to plant their flowers and discover the neighbour’s cat has been using that spot for their latrine….). As a result of this decision, some cats in our family have been able to reach the ripe old age of 20 years. Vets, if questioned about indoor or outdoor, will specify that indoor is better, safer, healthier and happier for both cats and humans alike. Outdoor cats can bring in contaminants, insects, parasites, and other problems, all of which can affect human health as well.
The local SPCA is one place to start if planning on bringing a feline into the home. Older cats are harder to adopt out because everyone seems to think kittens are so much cuter (they definitely DO hit a 9.5 on the cute-o-meter). But keep in mind many older cats are already neutered and declawed, happy to live indoors and heart-rendingly grateful for the chance to have a new life with a new family. We have adopted four of our cats between 1988 and 2008 from the shelter and all were wonderful additions to our home.
Breeders, provided they are reputable (i.e. not running kitten mills with unhealthy or over-bred animals), can offer felines of specific types. Our Blue Point, Kiki, came from a Siamese breeder outside Saint John, NB, and she is unbelievably bright, active, curious and at time, possessed of an almost human-like personality. Look through any cat book and there are dozens of gorgeous breeds to select from.
But, in truth, ALL cats are special. Like humans, personality is what is most important. Don’t listen to the old rhetoric about cats being aloof, cruel (because they can catch birds and mice), or that they shouldn’t be permitted in the crib with the baby. Nothing could be further from the truth. Cats are all about love. And the more you give them, the more you get back.
It’s paws for thought…..
